Imibono yokuphila ngenjabulo nokwaneliseka
#יםמהשבוי Vika Held-Kuzantsov, #Post2
UMsombuluko weviki, sawubona! ?
Ukuqonda ukuthi umcabango udala iqiniso kwagxilwa ekhanda lami emuva esigabeni "somjaho wekheji" futhi ngalokho ngibonga indawo yonke njalo ekuseni.
Izibonelo ezimbili eziyimifanekiso,
Isibonelo 1:
Ngaphambi kokuba ngithole isicelo sokuyosebenza e-US, sasisezinhlelweni zokuthuthela eCanada. Iqiniso liwukuthi, sasifuna ngempela ukufuduka ezweni, ikakhulukazi ngenxa yokuthi sabona ukuthi nakuba sobabili sifundile futhi sihola kahle kakhulu, ngeke sikwazi ukuthenga indlu kwa-Israyeli iminyaka eminingi woza. Sancamela ukuthuthela e-USA, izwe lamathuba. Kodwa yayingekho indlela esemthethweni nefinyelelekayo yalokhu, ngakho sasiphupha ngakho kuphela. Ingabe iphupho lafezeka?
Isibonelo 2:
Futhi, lapho silungiselela ukuthuthela eBoston, nganginemoto yokuqasha yangasese, isikhathi esingaphansi konyaka. Njengemoto entsha, kwaba nomshwalense owandisiwe owawuhlanganisa nokuthola uhlu lwamanani uma kwenzeka kuba nomshwalense. Kungani kufanele ngikukhumbule lokhu!. Kodwa...ngaphambi kokulifulathela leli, saxakeka ukuthi imoto izoyidayisa kanjani, ekubeni isizibophezele enkampanini eqashisayo. Besinethemba lokuthi sizomthola umthengi ozovuma yize isikhathi sethu sisifishane.
Ngobunye ubusuku ngishayela ngemva kosuku lomsebenzi, kungazelelwe amabhuleki awazange asebenze (noma mhlawumbe ngenxa yokukhathala ngesikhathi ngima erobhothini ngadideka futhi ngacindezela igesi esikhundleni samabhuleki?), imoto enobukhazikhazi be-cosmic. ngesivinini esiphansi, shaya imoto ngaphambili... kufakwe ama-airbag! Ngangesaba! Uyazi isipiliyoni, intuthu iqala ukuphuma, hhayi mnandi kakhulu, ngezwa okwesikhashana ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi vele ngisezulwini! Ngehla emotweni, angizange ngithole umonakalo kuyo. Kuvele ukuthi umthelela ube sesensor point yama-airbag. Ngiphume ngishibhile impela, nginovalo nje. Futhi... ukuthole? Ingqikithi Yemoto Elahlekile. Thola inani lemoto entsha enkampanini yomshwalense! Inkinga yokudayisa imoto isixazululwe ngendlela enkulu!
Uma ungaqiniseki, ngineqoqo lezibonelo ezengeziwe, vele ubuze?
Iyaqhubeka indaba esuka ku-#post1..
"Ithuba", ngisebenze isikhathi esigcwele iminyaka emibili, ngizinikele kakhulu enkampanini, ngisebenza ubusuku nemini. Anginaso isikhathi sanoma yini, umsebenzi, izingane, into kuphela eyenza isiqiniseko sokuqhubeka nokubona okuqukethwe mayelana nokuthuthuka komuntu siqu kanye nokutshalwa kwezimali futhi ngibambe iqhaza kanye njalo ezinyangeni ezimbalwa kumasemina amahora ambalwa kanye nezinkundla zokucobelelana ngolwazi zezinsuku ezimbalwa. Ngaleso sikhathi, wayechayeke ezindleleni eziningi zokutshala imali. Sengiqala ukuqonda ukuthi kungcono ukugxila ekutshalweni kwezindlu zase-US. Uzofunda kuphi? Izinketho eziningi, kodwa ungakhetha kanjani? Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngingafunda kanjani, ngingenaso isikhathi? Kudlula omunye unyaka.
2020, umhlaba uya phambili, kepha kuqubuka ubhubhane olusha, iCorona! Ngiyisisebenzi esidingekayo, qhubeka nokuziphilisa, ngiyabonga indawo yonke! Kuvaliwe okokuqala, okwesibili, ukusebenza ekhaya.
Ekhaya, wow! Isikhathi siyadalwa! Ukuhamba nezingane e-Moshav ntambama, ngibona izindawo ezinhle, amamitha ambalwa ukusuka endlini ... Sihlala lapha unyaka wesithathu futhi ngithola lezi zindawo okokuqala ngqa! Ngijabule kakhulu ngalokhu kuqonda, bengiphuthelwa yini sonke lesi sikhathi!
Ngaphezu kwalokho, manje nginesikhathi sokuqala ukufunda ingcebo yase-US. Ukuthola ukuthi ufunda ngama-webinars nokusondeza, kungilondolozela uhambo oluya enkabeni yezwe! Ngokushesha ubhalisele isifundo eside nesiphelele ngale ndaba. Ngijabulela ngempela umgwaqo kanye nabantu ohlangana nabo eqinisweni lami elisha. Ngizonaba ngalokhu kanye nokwehluleka obekuyizisekelo zempumelelo emkhakheni wezohwebo lwezindlu zase-US ngasekupheleni kwaleli sonto.
Zinjani izingane njengoba ngingekho namuhla?
Ukuhlala e-moshav enyakatho: indodakazi esebangeni lokuqala, indodana ebangeni lesithupha kanye nami. Sisanda kuphasa, ngenxa yohlelo lwemfundo oluhle kanye nenani labantu elisezingeni eliphezulu. Kuhle, thanda indawo! Kodwa, kunenkinga, sasuka kude nogogo nomkhulu, intombazane isencane, ngubani ozoyilanda ku "Haverton" (yilokho uZaharon abizwa ngakho endaweni yethu yokuhlala?).
Ngihlela umhlangano womndeni, izingane kanye nami, sixoxe futhi sinqume ukuthi sebeqala ukuba ngabalingani ekuphatheni indlu. Umfana oneminyaka engu-11 uthola umsebenzi obalulekile - ukukhipha udadewabo ohlakeni, nsuku zonke ngo-16:30 p.m. Ngiyaqonda ukuthi ugqozi luyadingeka ukuze umsebenzi wenziwe, ngethemba ukuthi kuzoba ngcono.
Zinqumele ukuthi uzokhokhelwa ngalo msebenzi. Ukubuza ukuthi yini engikhethayo, inkokhelo yamasonto onke noma kufanele ngivule uhlelo lokonga. Ngokujabulisayo, ingane ikhetha uhlelo lokonga.
Lapho isikhathi sifika, uyaqaphela ukuthi umfana ukhipha udadewabo ohlakeni nsuku zonke futhi ngesikhathi, ngokushesha kakhulu uqala ukumethemba, ngempela mhlawumbe ostentatious ngakimi, kodwa sasingekho isidingo ngisho ukukhuluma ngakho.
Lapho ebheka emuva, kamuva uthola ukuthi kuyisinyathelo esingokwengqondo, ukunikeza ingane umsebenzi onomthwalo wemfanelo, uma ingane iphumelela, iyazi ukuthi ingakwazi! Lokhu kunikeza ingane ukuzethemba nokuzimela.
Ezidlweni zakusihlwa sicobelelana ngolwazi, abahlangani ngaso sonke isikhathi, kuba nezinsuku eziningi eziphumelelayo nangaphansi, kodwa ngivame ukubakhumbuza ukuthi ngingedwa, nokuthi bangabalingani bami. Yiqiniso, imithwalo yabo yemfanelo mincane, isibonelo, ukukhipha udoti, ukwenza umbhede (ingabe usabakhumbuza ngalokhu ngezikhathi ezithile?), Kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi bafunda ukupheka, ukuwasha, ukulenga nokuthatha izingubo zabo. okwakho. Abantu abaningi bayangisiza ngalokhu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphila e-Moshav kukhululekile kakhulu, kunemicimbi eminingi yomphakathi, ukwesekwa okuhlangene kuyamukelwa phakathi kwabazali ekuhambiseni izingane emakilasini, imicimbi yekilasi, njll. Izingane zifunda ukuphilela hhayi kuphela, kodwa nomphakathi. Esikoleni, izingane zivunyelwe ukuba ngabaholi, ngayinye emkhakheni lapho inamandla khona. Isibonelo, izingane ezingabahleli abakhuthele bemicimbi ezikoleni nasemphakathini. Esikoleni, udala namathuba amaningi okudlala esiteji futhi wethule ithalente lakho kuzithameli zabazali nezingane.
Ngesikhathi izingane zibuyela ekhaya, indodakazi yami uRav ihlangana nabangane, indodana ichitha isikhathi esiningi phambi kwemidlalo ye-computer.
Ngiyamvumela futhi ngize ngayeka ukulwa nokukhawulela.
Ngemva kokubuya kwethu e-US, kwakubaluleke kakhulu kimi ukulondoloza isiNgisi ayesitholile. Ngafuna izixazululo, ngokwesibonelo, imindeni ekhuluma isiNgisi esingahlangana nayo, kodwa angizange ngisithole. Ngelinye ilanga indodana idlala enye i-"Fortnite" (namuhla idlala amanye amapulazi, kubonakala sengathi ithuthuka kakhulu?) Ngezwa kuthiwa ikhuluma nezingane zaphesheya, ikhuluma nazo isiNgisi. Ibhingo! Ngabona ukuthi lena cishe indlela yokulondoloza ulimi. Asinayo i-TV ekhaya, ngakho-ke ithuba lakhe selifikile. Kuvele namuhla ukuthi bengingenaphutha.
Kulezi zinsuku, indodana ivame ukugibela ibhasi yonke indawo. Indodakazi iyakwazi ukulala yodwa ize ivuke ekuseni, izihlele iphume iye endaweni.
Ngizohlanganyela okwengeziwe, kulo nyaka indodana ingithuthile, yathola imali yayo yokuqala ngokunikeza izifundo ezinemininingwane "yezibalo". Ngonyaka olandelayo, ukhuphukela ebangeni le-10, uqala ukufundisa enhlanganweni yentsha futhi esebenza "eHevarton".
Ngakho-ke, bantwana bami abathandekayo, ngivumeleni ngiqhubeke nokuphila, ngiphathe ibhizinisi lami lezindlu futhi ngibambe iqhaza ezingxoxweni nasemicimbini yomphakathi ephethwe uRabi enkabeni yezwe.
Ungawaphatha kanjani amacala angajabulisi kangako
Siphila ngokubambisana ngempela, ngokuzola nangokunethezeka, kodwa-ke, ngezikhathi ezithile kufika izenzakalo ezinzima noma ezikhungathekisayo.
Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, muva nje indodakazi ibambe igciwane lokuhlanza. Kumele nazane. Waqala ukuphalaza ebusuku enganqamuki. Iyacanuzela inhliziyo, ibuhlungu, intombazane iyahayiza, ayiyeki ukukhala. Ngiseduze kwakhe, ngizama ukwehlisa umoya. Angehlisa umoya, ngingasiza ngani? Ngikhumbula ukuqonda engakufunda eshabhu yokugcina. Ngesikhathi somcimbi onzima noma okhungathekisayo, qala ukwamukele, bese uqala ukufuna ukukhanya. Kanjani?
Lapho intombazane yami empofu imemeza ithi "kubuhlungu" futhi ikhala ngokuxhamazela ngayicela ukuba izame ukumemeza esikhundleni sokuthi "Ngizizwa kahle", vele iguqule amagama.
Phela, umcabango udala iqiniso, kodwa uma umcabango udala iqiniso elibhubhisayo, kuhle ukuthi esikhundleni salo, isibonelo, izitatimende ezinhle. Cishe uyazi, ukuze uziqinisekise ukuthi uzophumelela ngaphambi kokuhlolwa ngosizo lokuthi "Ngiyaphumelela!" ,amemeze futhi akhulume into engapheli.
Ake sibuyele entombazaneni yami, akayithandi ngempela, ngakho-ke cishe akazange avume ngokushesha, kodwa lapho ephumelela, waqala ukumemeza "Ngiyayithanda!" Kancane kancane izwi laqala ukudamba, ukuphumula okuphelele kwafika cishe imizuzu emibili, intombazane yalala.
Iworkshop yokugcina engaya kuyo: Izinsuku ezi-3 ezigcwele ukuzithuthukisa, no-Doron Liebstein.
Hamba kahle!
Kusasa ngizokhuluma ngendlela yami eya ekuzimeleni kwezamabhizinisi ezindlu e-USA
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